Fear of Ghosts

Posted by scarygeek on January 5, 2010 at 23:39 pm

As most of you know, I have had to deal with ghosts for most of my life, and have never really had anyone around to help me to understand them.  I was never taught that I should not to be afraid, and the fact that I loved scary movies even as a young child did not help my situation.  I grew up being scared of ghosts, and even though I knew I should not fear them, somehow I was conditioned that way.   I am trying very hard now, to recondition myself, not only for me but for my children.  I want them to remain open to them, and to embrace the gifts that they have.  I can’t go back and change how I reacted to my past experiences, but I can work toward changing how I react to them now.  Lately, I have found that I can take photos of spirit orbs, just by asking for them to show themselves.  I am very thankful for this gift, and hope to get some really good pictures to post on this site.  I always feel a very positive energy when taking these pictures and it is a really good feeling.  The point I am trying to make is that we should not fear them, not even the negative spirits, because we are in control.  If we remain calm the negative spirits cannot become stronger by feeding off of our fears.  We need to remain in control, and set boundaries and rules for our spiritual friends.  When it is late at night and they want to talk, just tell them, “now is not the time” and ask them to leave, and allow you to rest, and if they are negative energies, let them know that they are not welcome and that they must leave now.  You must be firm, yet loving, and kind.  Trust in your faith that they will follow your directions, and that you are in control.  Having negative or positive energies in your home can be very physically and mentally draining.  I believe that spirits require lots of energy to present themselves, and they draw upon the energies around them, including your own energy, especially when they wake you up at all hours of the night.  I also believe that we will be seeing a lot more spirits, ghosts, and orbs as we get closer to our day of enlightenment (2012).  Paranormal activity of all kinds will become more and more common, and how wonderful that we have the Internet and the ability to share our experiences.